He was beautiful. Great body, lots of tatts (I love) and a nice smile. Part of me thought he was not real but I think I had seen him in person in my area before so he is likely a real human.
We started chatting and he claimed to want a relationship, not just a booty call situation which was a good start. But then after a few days it became clear that his weekends were spent drinking a lot with friends, going to parties (um covid?) and then nursing hangovers. If that is your jam that is all well and good but that is not where I am in life (hello 9pm bedtime).
I was trying to see beyond that as having different preferences in going out is totally fine and I love my alone time so if you want to go out and party I can stay home and chill – sounds great to me actually. He wanted our first date to be a park workout. I actually didn’t mind this idea, something active, covid appropriate and it was different.
Then I got the text on a Friday night “Wanna link at yours?” . . .
Pardon me? Wanna link? First of all, I thought you wanted a relationship, linking at mine does not sound like you do. Secondly, who says that?! He is a 32 year old human. Wanna link? What does linking involve? What happened to our first park date?
Part of me was very tempted to poke some holes and say definitely come link at mine. But then I thought more about STIs and realized this was not the best idea. But man was I tempted for a minute.
I didn’t respond. He never messaged me again.