I am ready to delete my profile on Bumble. If I do, I will likely be back to swiping in a month or two but I feel like I need a break soon. This guy I actually like our little chit chat, we are sending voice notes back and forth and his speciality is related to my career so we have that in common.
Unfortunately, he lives in London, ON…I am in Toronto. He claims to come to Toronto often and does not see this distance as an issue, which is all well and good, but it has been about three weeks now and we have not met. I did ask him when we first matched and he said the distance was no issue but I think he was lying.
There is no current plan to meet in the near future. I will likely be forward and ask him if there is a point in keeping the conversation going. Actually I will do that now. Let’s see what he says. “Hey, so I don’t mean to be forward, but is there a point in this conversation continuing? I mean, are we actually going to meet? Well, I do mean to be forward, but don’t mean to come off as rude”. Sent.
Update September 22: He does but is very busy and was going to be in Toronto the next weekend but decided to go to a cottage instead. Cool. Don’t blame you…so we will meet in October?
- September 25: He will be in Toronto next weekend…we will see. I am not holding my breath though